Sins from the Bygone Eras!!!
I was browsing through some websites,viz rediff sify. the News was filled with Abhishek Aishwarya(Abiwarya) wedding. And there was a recap of their past love affairs. Oops, Do they remind you of your past affairs on the day of your wedding, I was shocked. What would be their reaction seeing each other's stories. Or is it that both are equally competent in this regard.
But then I realised, this is not news to them. They know it well before the marriage. But then knowing all this how could one tie the knot. Maybe because neither can claim to be better. Both have their histories. or maybe because they are going to share their future and not the past.
Leaving them out of the equation now, my mind wavers to how people feel about such things. And how about if such things happen in normal people's life. Yes, this is quiet regular in every person's life. Only advantage is they are aided by the guard of secrecy unless they disclose. Because rediff.com luckily doesnt cover up every life.
Is it wrong to love one person first and then love another. Should love be an alleigance of faith. Even faith can be changed, so why not love. If love is for a person for Mind or Soul or Body, when people change the love also would obviously change. If every person has one and only one right person for them, then how long do you wait to find that one person.
If you do see someone, feel they are the right one for you but then after being related you realise that they arent right, is that a wrong feeling. If you dont feel the love for a person, then why fake love. Is faking love more injustice or seperating out a greater injustice. Does seperating out make you ineligible to fall in another relationship.
Like how divorce after marriage is a way out, ending a relationship that doesnt work right is a way out. The biggest question in each of those situations is, why does the society have such a lot of comments on such things. Isnt it upto the individuals to decide whether they accept each other or not.
If we are able to love one another and are ready to share our future that is what it needs. You dont need a certificate from your past. You dont need to be purest in thoughts, deeds and action from the day you stepped into planet earth. Your past even the sins dont make you ineligible to live. It is your present and your future that determines the right course of action. And hence let us refrain from judging the past.
But then I realised, this is not news to them. They know it well before the marriage. But then knowing all this how could one tie the knot. Maybe because neither can claim to be better. Both have their histories. or maybe because they are going to share their future and not the past.
Leaving them out of the equation now, my mind wavers to how people feel about such things. And how about if such things happen in normal people's life. Yes, this is quiet regular in every person's life. Only advantage is they are aided by the guard of secrecy unless they disclose. Because rediff.com luckily doesnt cover up every life.
Is it wrong to love one person first and then love another. Should love be an alleigance of faith. Even faith can be changed, so why not love. If love is for a person for Mind or Soul or Body, when people change the love also would obviously change. If every person has one and only one right person for them, then how long do you wait to find that one person.
If you do see someone, feel they are the right one for you but then after being related you realise that they arent right, is that a wrong feeling. If you dont feel the love for a person, then why fake love. Is faking love more injustice or seperating out a greater injustice. Does seperating out make you ineligible to fall in another relationship.
Like how divorce after marriage is a way out, ending a relationship that doesnt work right is a way out. The biggest question in each of those situations is, why does the society have such a lot of comments on such things. Isnt it upto the individuals to decide whether they accept each other or not.
If we are able to love one another and are ready to share our future that is what it needs. You dont need a certificate from your past. You dont need to be purest in thoughts, deeds and action from the day you stepped into planet earth. Your past even the sins dont make you ineligible to live. It is your present and your future that determines the right course of action. And hence let us refrain from judging the past.
posted by Devanathan at 4:32 PM
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